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buffer-overrun ([personal profile] fandomnumbergenerator) wrote2012-02-08 03:29 pm
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Letter from my dead boyfriend’s mother, 10 years later.

Some of the things she says about me are just false – I was never in rehab, and certainly  my life had not been saved “by being taken into a facility known for intervention in just such a situation.”  I did not get him starting shooting up – when I met him, his arms were covered in welted scars, some from shooting, and some from cutting himself.

I do feel terrible that she was so upset about the coroner’s call and the cremation.  Two friends of Michael’s – Jane and Shawn, who had cars and money and seemed more able to cope – dealt with all the details of Michael’s body.  I guess I just assumed they were talking to his mother, but I guess not.  The coroner had asked me if I wanted to call MIchael’s mother or if he should.  I explained that I had only met her once and didn’t know her that well – the coroner said it was probably better if he called first, and I could call her later (which I did). But I guess I made the wrong decision (not the first time).